Your opinion

How many times did you think these words?

From my past experience, i know for a fact that holding onto your thoughts is never a good thing..No one will ever know how you feel, what you’re going through, what you think, if you don’t speak up.

I have learned now that everything should be out in the open…Everything, even if it hurts your partner…Because there will never be a second chance, another day, to make things right. We tend to pile up our feelings deep inside, ruining our relationships by not explaining what is wrong.

We cannot always wish that the other person knows, they will never know if we don’t speak up.

Are you with opening up to your partner, or do you prefer keeping your thoughts to yourself?

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3 responses to “Your opinion

  1. LGJ

    Comunication is very important..of course both side…..

  2. Cindy Sue

    “I have learned now that everything should be out in the open…Everything, even if it hurts your partner…”
    I would have to say that if it’s something that is going to hurt your partner, you will need to ask yourself, and think it through, why you would be saying it. Honesty is one thing, to have them hurt because you hurt is another. Always keeping in mind that although time can pass and they don’t know how you feel, to the fact that time does pass and then you’re left with what has been laid on the table. Don’t let honesty turn to resentment, find a way to say it gently and with love.

    • Always gently and with love, because resentment can make a person harsh and mean…and when you keep it to yourself for a long time, it turns to resentment.. Thank you for pointing this out.

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